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 3 Replies  Created 843 Days Ago

So my boyfriend and I have been together for just about four years and are currently living in different states. There is a possibility that he may be getting a job where I am (MA) and will be moving up here with in the year. I asked my parents the other day what they thought if I moved in with him, and they gave me lots of answers that seemed like a joke knowing my parents. I didn't get a straight answer. I know that if he does move up here that is what I want to do, but I'm afraid my parents will be upset. What do I do?


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JAMIELYNN
838 Days Ago

You come first - then your parents. If you two are ready to live closer and possibly with each other than you should take that step. I was long distance with my now husband and we moved in with eachother after college. It was the right thing for us. My parents were upset at first but once they saw how wonderful we were together their opinions changed and they supported my decision. You are a strong girl. Do what you think is right. If it doesn't work out at least you can't say "what if." Plus moving near eachother will help you decide FOR REAL if this guy is the one for you - in the REAL WORLD.



Cat201
842 Days Ago

I come from a very traditional family and I was faced with making the same decision. I know how tough this decision can be. I never thought I would move in with my boyfriend before getting married. When I asked my parents how they felt about me moving in with my boyfriend, surprisingly they were open to the idea. At first they thought I was joking but then they realized that it was something that I really wanted to do. You need to slowly warm them up to the idea by mentioning it every now and then. Show them that you respect their opinion and input towards the situation. You may want to mention the benefits of living with a man as well versus living with your girlfriends. However, this is a decision that you need to make for yourself not your parents or friends because you’re the one who has to live with your decision. It was tough for my parents to adjust at first but eventually they were very happy for my boyfriend and I. Let us know how it goes. Good Luck!



Unamelar
842 Days Ago

I think that if you feel that moving in with your boyfriend is the thing you want to do and you feel that its right but your parents wont approve, just explain to them how you feel. If they start asking you a bunch of questions about the two of you and the situation, just be truthful and they definitely will respect that. Good luck!




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