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Feeling Accepted
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Feeling Accepted

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Being an only child I never had a sister or brother to be connected to or have talks with. In high school I didn't have a huge group of friends or even a best friend, and all I wanted was to be accepted. When I went to college I gained best friends and people who love me for who I am. I then found valsecrets.com and at first I was unsure about it and how I would mesh with this group. When ever I meet new people I always ask will they like me? Will I be accepted? I found that I ask myself this question ALL of the time. I am in that stage where I am not quite sure who I am or if I'm okay with myself. Everyday I am discovering who I am and who I want to be. By putting myself out there and learning to be okay with myself, I will be okay when people don't like me. So that is my valsecret, if you are worried about people accepting you, accept yourself first. It is not something that happens over night, and I am still working on that but once you are okay with who you are then being "accepted" by others will seem easier.

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lovegurublaire
844 Days Ago

This is beautiful. Good for you girl, you're on a great path!

JAMIELYNN
849 Days Ago

Being comfortable with who you are can attract people to you or away from you. You just have to build up the confidence to not put yourself down when others aren't open enough to accept you for you or that you just do not get along with. I used to try to be everyone's friend now I'm just me and you can take me or leave me. Good secret



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