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Wedding Planning Stress
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The Wedding is about You and Him

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I don't know how many horror stories I heard while planning a wedding. As a matter of fact, I know a few couples that have canceled their engagement and broke up due to the wedding planning. Isn't that terrible? Does it really have to get so stressful and harming that it breaks up the union of an engagement of marriage for a one night event? I also know that a lot of people lose friends or family during this time due to the stresses of planning a wedding.

Many couples and families fight over where to get married; local vs. a destination, who they are going to invite, how much money to spend on the wedding.

A wedding is one day event and basically it's a celebration to share with friends and family of a union of life commitment and love.

Weddings have become a huge money making business and what happens is that people get so wrapped up in what is being offered, following wedding etiquette, and trying to impress everyone rather it being about romance and love.
The fact of the matter is that the standard of weddings in your family or circle of friends are always in the back of your mind and therefore that is what creates the stress.

My VaSecret is that a wedding is about you and your future husband. If you want to make your guests happy that is great as you should. If you let go of that inhibition of accommodating everyone and creating a wedding that makes everyone else happy you will enjoy the planning of the wedding much more! A wedding shouldn't be a 'show' but more of the gathering of people that love you to witness the union of the exchange of your vows with you and the man you love and to celebrate this all together. It's that simple, it's about love. *Like in this picture I took of my best friend and her husband, they turned around but I thought it was such a precious photo of them. Their wedding ceremony was all about their love and everyone in the room felt it.

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