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So many people say you shouldn’t talk or ask about the ex’s. Whoever thought of that must be so closed minded that they can’t even think on their own, they need someone else to think for them.

I once said to a boyfriend, 'I'm thankful to your parents, siblings, relatives, friends, ex-girlfriends, and lovers for molding the guy I love today'. These people are the fabric of your life who've shaped and influenced the way you think and live today, including ex's. Ex’s are people that your current boyfriend was involved with and has changed his way of doing things in a relationship or in his life. Why wouldn’t you want to know more about someone that was that influential to the person you love?

My ValSecret is that you can ask or bring up ex’s just as long as you don’t harp on the him and always circle back to your ex(s) as if you are living in the past vs. in the present with your partner. I believe embracing your boyfriend’s/husbands past is truly loving him, after all it’s the fabric of his life.

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JennAllison
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I'm friendly with all of my XBFs, but their wives won't let them talk to me. I guess I'll take it as a compliment.



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