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Never lose the faith
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Never lose the faith

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Many of my friends and family are facing tough times. It's so important to never lose faith in yourself and in what is meant to be. Remember every event in your life should be a learning experience. I believe everything happens for a reason. These reasons may not be easily understood by humans but the higher beings know why it's happening just have faith your in good hands.

If you lose your job perhaps it's time for you to foster your relationships or catch up on some "you" time. Spend the time exercising, applying for jobs, cleaning and with family and friends. This is also a good chance to land the job of your dreams by being more than prepared for your interview and reaching out to your contacts. No matter what do not lose the faith and you have to believe in yourself and that good things will happen to you. The universe can read your signals, if you do not believe in yourself no one else will. Sometimes set backs are just what we need to get ahead in the race. Put your best foot forward and believe!!

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JennAllison
436 Days Ago

Thanks Cat. That's a wonderful confirmation.

JT
555 Days Ago

Excellent 'secret'. :) I didn't used to like the phrase "everything happens for a reason" when I was younger. It used to make me cringe and angry. What I've realized over time is that I was angry because I wanted to control everything in my life, I wanted things to be a certain way because I wanted them to be. Now I know that we as humans have a lot less control of things than we think. And that it's easier to be accepting. Personally I have incorporated that phrase "Let go and let God". I'm much more spiritual than religious. For me, having a belief in some type of higher power out there, who I call God, makes my life so much more fulfilling, less stressful, guides me, and basically makes me a much better person to be around on a daily basis. Things do happen for a reason, even the bad things. And there is always some positive spin that can be spun on a situation if you look deeply enough. It won't always take the pain away, but, it will help. And sometimes the reason isn't revealed to us right away. Sometimes it may be a year or two later when we have that "ahhh haaa!" moment and realize what that reason was. So, try it, try to find the reason in your situations and make sure it's the positive one. It isn't easy at first, but, with practice, it gets easier. If you want to be good at anything, it involves practice. :) Lastly, I want to leave you all with this phrase I've heard several times...."Don't quit 5 minutes before the miracle...." ~JT

HeavenRose
556 Days Ago

Very inspirational! In the midst of my long and unsuccessful search for work I definately needed to read something like this and feel much better now about the days I have spent exercising, cooking, cleaning and hanging out...I have been starting to feel down about not be a working girl and this made me feel better! At least I have been trying! xoxo



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