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Going out with an Ex
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When I created this vlog I was very disappointed with myself. The reason why was because I fell for an ex's woes. Going out with him the night before, I knew that morning that there was nothing there. As a matter of fact, he came looking for me the following week and I told him that we should just be Pen Pals. He was offended but so was I. We always feel something for an ex in our hearts and it makes us vulnerable to them. Sometimes it's comforting to even talk to them again. However, be careful. Sometimes that is just want they want. They just want the quick comfort. They want the feeling of love or connection for the moment that you are together again but that feeling dissipates as soon as they leave your side. You will know when he really wants you back for keeps.

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limolou
761 Days Ago

"PAST" Leave it there... It's been doing well... The future has many beautiful secrets, that it wants to share with you, it wants you to love it just like the “past“…

Val
1041 Days Ago

Thanks Angel! I know .. it's all a learning experience.

angel711
1043 Days Ago

You DON'T need that!! Yes, there are spaces in our hearts that sometimes have old boyfriends in them, but, most of the time, its for the memories that were made. And not for how you feel for them now. I truly have learned that an ex is an ex for a reason and unless he truly had changed and truly made an effort to make things different, he would have to remain an ex. Besides, the time that someone spends on an ex is time that is not being spent with someone that just may be the right one :-)

Val
1046 Days Ago

Thank you Jenn.. we all deserve the best here. big hug

JennAllison
1046 Days Ago

You deserve the best. It lookslike that ex made you sad. How dare he!



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