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Letting Go
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You may not ever feel that letting go of someone you love is a good thing..
You may feel that you must keep that person whether a friend,or a lover because you DO love them, no matter how they may treat you... You may feel that you will never love another and no one will ever love you again.

Your feelings are natural... Your feelings are necessary... Your feelings are pure..

I can assure you in my many travels in life and love, I held on too tightly to people thinking all these thoughts. But guess what when I did let go, and starting caring about me, more than the other negative friends or lovers in my life... I learned that someone would love me and treat me the way I deserved to be loved and treated.

And the first person that I found that fell in love with me after letting go, was ME..
and only then could I welcome healthy relationships in my life, and I only now demand healthy relationships, and I still let go of people who come into my life that don't live up to the higher standard that I created for myself, myself..

So let go... of that friend that is negative or jealous,let go of that lover that doesnt respect you or abuses you emotionally, or worse physically... Clean out your heart... and start to love yourself... it is the only true way to set your higher standard..




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vany212
1034 Days Ago

So true. It is hard to cut the cord, but inevitable.

Cat201
1037 Days Ago

You can never be completely happy if you don't let go of the past. Once you let go it's like a weight as been lifted off of your shoulders. Life is too short to dwell on the past.

trish
1037 Days Ago

this is amazing.. i speak from experience.. you always have to let go even if it does hurt.. in the end.. ur only benefitting from it.. you become a better person.

Val
1038 Days Ago

I am sure we have all been there. I know I have. Great Secret Tracey. Thank you.



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