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Should I or shouldnt I
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There are times where you just don't know if your making the right choice, or decision..The old should I or shouldn't I scenario... I am a Libra and undecisive by nature, always weighing all information on my scales.. but I usually go with the yes I should decision. I often get afraid of the disappointment of the yes I should decision. I take risks, I open my heart, I tell it like it is, I often say too much.
Those yes I shoulds have costed me boyfriends, best friends, jobs, family problems and my heart at times. But as I look back at all the yes I shoulds, I have gained so much more, I learned that being honest and open and straight forward has landed me some of the best things in my life. I can look in the mirror and say I never didn't say what was on my mind, that I took that risk to open my heart and soul and the outcomes from each time were all different. It is better sometimes to do the yes I should.. Good luck in all your decisions and choices and learn to take those risks in life you will never know until you open that yes I should door.

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JennAllison
1021 Days Ago

I know what you mean. I try to go with what i want to do the most, that's usually the best option for me in my life. :)

Val
1025 Days Ago

I think *yes* can be the answer to most, but not to all. I think it all depends on the situation. However, I am glad that everything worked out for you Tracey :-)

Cat201
1025 Days Ago

This is a great secret! I struggle with making decions because i'm always thinking what if. Like you said, in order to obtain what you want you have to take risks.



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