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I posted this photo on the ValSecrets.com Facebook Group because I love my strength and confidence in the photo and that is what ValSecrets.com is all about. Well, not too much time passed that a girl wrote up an article on ValSecrets.com that it's a quote on quote Self-Esteem Sucker. She said along the lines that the girls on ValSecrets.com would be too skinny and would make other girls out there feel insecure. Of course she used the photo I displayed up top as an example. I was so very upset. I am Not too skinny. I eat a whole lot and I work out. I love my body and don't plan on abusing it.

I felt that she was somewhat jealous. Not just of me but of the girls as a whole on ValSecrets.com. The sad part is that most girls are jealous. We need to end this and support each other instead. If a girl has a healthy looking body, you should say, *you go girl! Your friend has a brand new car? You should feel happy for her. She's getting married to Mr. Perfect? Guess what, that's amazing!

Jealousy is a very ugly thing and it can eat you up inside. It does no one any good, not the girl or You. Why hold on to feelings that are bad when you can be happy for the other person?

My ValSecret; If a girl is jealous of you, don't get angry with her, but tell her that you are sorry she feels that way. If you are jealous of another girl, snap out of it! Think of how happy she must be and that happiness will carry over to you being happy. As a result, you will be a better person and happier person overall.

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RossellaRago
936 Days Ago

You look gorgeous Val!! If anything this photo is an inspiration to take pride in your body that you clearly work hard for!!

pinknonu
964 Days Ago

Wow Val, you are truly an insperation. don't mind my spelling. Not a good one. I have a secret. I will send it to you via email. I just can't talk about here. You are a beautiful woman. One thing about being a woman we have a different bond then men do with one another. I am so glad you have this site. It gives us the confidence to be ourselves and feel comfortable doing so. Thank You Val. You are our hero. It's only a matter of time before you become famous and share your world with the world. Thanks again.

eliza7654
1009 Days Ago

This is a great secret. You are an excellent role-model and set a great example for young girls. People should drop the envy and try to be the best they can be and not worry about other people. We all have enough to worry about in our own lives as it is!! You are confident and courageous!!!

angel711
1009 Days Ago

I agree with you Val

Geoffrey
1009 Days Ago

Looking good val.



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