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JennAllison

962 Days Ago

I don't like the games. I only like guys that like me. :) He can still be strong & interesting. The hard to get thing doesn't work on me at all.

Val

968 Days Ago

believe it or not whenever you just start dating someone there always is a game played. You can't deal all of your emotions immediately. The feelings between the two has to be insync to *let go* right off the bat. Otherwise, in the end one or the other suffers. The Cat and Mouse game still has it's charm.

eliza7654

970 Days Ago

Butttt to add to that, the availability game should be played strategically and ONLY in the very beginning while you feel things out.

eliza7654

970 Days Ago

I lovee the availability game!! greatttt touch Val!!!

HMarino

970 Days Ago

I agree with CJames...games are good only if BOTH people are playing...honesty always works!

CJames

970 Days Ago

You definitely have the choice to play the game or not. If you don't mind playing games, then by all means play the game. But, if you're looking for a steady relationship, and a guy that's not going to constantly be playing games, then put that out on the table. A lot of times the "game" is perpetuated because you start it, so then he starts playing...then you don't want to play anymore, but now he's liking playing the game, and then he doesn't want to play anymore, but now you think he's still playing the game, so you keep playing the game. So, just be open with him, and ask him what his expectations are. If you're open and tell him you're done with the games, he may be on the same page.

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