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I'm in the process of planning my wedding for next October, and there is one thing that I have found necessary to keep in mind--since I am planning on a budget, it is so important to keep 'real money' in perspective. For example, my wedding dress--I would never spend $5,000 on an outfit to go out in that I would wear once. I understand that your wedding day is vastly different than a night out on the town, but getting married is about beginning the rest of your life with a person, not breaking the bank. If you are willing to do the research, and have the time and creativity, you can plan a beautiful wedding for less money than you would think. When we first got engaged, I would think, "Hmmm, $3000 isn't too bad for flowers." Then I realized that if I was planning a regular party, I would think that this was an astronomical price to pay for something that people are not going to pay too much attention to. If you have an unlimited amount of money, then this is not a problem, but most people are not that lucky. Do yourself a favor, and pay for everything with money you actually have. (no credit cards!) Think about how going in to debt will affect the rest of your future together. Your guests are there because they love you and want to share in your special day--not because you wear a $10,000 dress and have rare flowers flown in from Tahiti. Be savvy with your money--it's much smarter (and sexier!) than putting yourself in debt for a five hour event!

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JAMIELYNN
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These are great. You should check out my wedding tips for having a great party for less. Good luck planning!



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