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Im looking for advice on long distance relationships, please help...

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lacosta
894 Days Ago

Long distance relationships can be hard. I know what you're going through. One of the best things you can do is have faith in yourself and faith in your relationship. Believe that you are a strong and capable woman who can get through anything. Believe your relationship is just as strong. Relax and enjoy the time you have apart. Think of the extra time you have for girlfriends, hobbies and focusing on school. Most importantly, don't smother each other. Trust one another to be honest and faithful. Give yourselves the time and space to enjoy this growing period in your relationship, but maintain activities and conversations that keep you close. One of my favorite things about long distance periods in a relationship is the opportunity to grow closer together as friends and partners. Remember that you are stronger than you would ever think and you'll get through it! If you want any more advice, feel free to contact me!

Unamelar
895 Days Ago

Hey Kate, there are many tests that people and people as a couple go through in life, to see where they stand. I know from experience that all relationships have tests and the tests don't stop. Its when the tests stop is when you have to start worrying. There are a lot of relationships where two people are apart from each other for months at a time and they come back to each other again and again happier and more appreciative about one another. They don't say, "absense makes the heart grow fonder" for nothing. Stay focused, hang in there and everything will work out for the best. ;) Rita



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